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A Productive Muslimah November 3, 2009

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Asalamualaykum everyone!

I’m sorry I’ve been away from the blogosphere!  Back to school preparations required me to be on active home school-teacher- mom duty!

However I have been working on many exciting and new projects for both TeacherTamara and SisterShine LifeCoaching. One project that I’d like to share was an interview with ProductiveMuslim.com

Tamara L. Redfern_Productive-Muslim-Interview

Enjoy the interview and check back often for more news about our upcoming projects and special offers for the month of November!

~ Tamara

 

The little engine that could August 1, 2009

 

The Mount Washington Cog Railway

The Mount Washington Cog Railway

 

“I think I can, I think I can, I think I can, I think I can”…

 
As the little engine trudged up the rugged mountain, he was afraid and doubted himself, but instead of focusing on his fear he challenged himself to believe that he could climb up that mountain side. Chanting to himself, “I think I can, I think I can, I think I can”  each time he was afraid, he was slowly-but surely reaching his destination.

 

3 Step Process for Changing a Limiting Belief

IDENTIFY-CHANGE-ACTION

  1. Identify the belief(ex. I am too small to climb that mountain.  I am too old to go back to school.  I don’t have time to memorize Quran.)
  2. Change what you say to your self about the belief. (ex I think I can climb that mountain.  I think I could return to school at my age others have done it.  Maybe I can memorize a little Quran in the mornings after fajr.)
  3. Put your new belief in action. (ex Today I started climbing the mountain.  I registered for a class at the local community college.  While the kids were asleep today I memorized a short surah.)

National Blog Posting Month’s theme for August is “Tomorrow”.  By tomorrow I challenge every reader no matter where they are to identify and post 1 limiting belief they have.  Be brave! or post anonymously :) Come on little engines! I know you can do it!!  What mountains are you facing today?

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Teacher~Tamara

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35 things to do! July 22, 2009

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calendarI had a birthday this week and I usually think of things that I can do to improve myself for the next year.  It’s kinda like a mid year evaluation for the New Year’s resolutions.  This year I am going to go from the top of my heart and just share with you my top 35 list of things to do:

  1. Trust others more
  2. Be less opinionated
  3. Focus Forward
  4. Keep promises to my children
  5. Dance with my children
  6. Sing with my children more
  7. Eat out less
  8. Seek solitude
  9. Enjoy the moment
  10. Worry less about the opinion of others
  11. Pray more
  12. Pray for my friends more often
  13. Ask Allah for what I NEED not just what I want
  14. Be content
  15. Accept criticism openly
  16. Seek growth work
  17. Help others
  18. Do unto others…
  19. Support my dh
  20. Be more active
  21. Fast frequently
  22. Read the Quran Daily
  23. Memorize more Quran
  24. Go to bed earlier
  25. Exercise early in the morning
  26. Give away some clothes :(
  27. Buy from my grocery list
  28. Seek first to understand
  29. Live for now
  30. Prepare for Tomorrow
  31. Ask for forgiveness
  32. Take care of unfinished business
  33. Get closer to Allah
  34. Love unconditionally
  35. Forgive

A little harder than I thought but Alhumdulillah it’s written.  Anyone share any of my goals for next year or like to comment please feel free. I am open :)

Take care and have a lovely evening, day, morning! God Bless you.

T~T

oh one more 

36.  Accept others where they are.

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a little bit goes a long way July 5, 2009

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A Red Red Rose for You! by Tamara L. Redfern

A Red Red Rose for You! by Tamara L. Redfern

Compassion, Courtesy, Kindness, Sweetness, Happiness, Love, Ice cream (well maybe not ice cream) a little bit of most good things can go a long way.

Holding the door for someone behind you while sharing a smile. Picking up something for someone that they accidentally dropped. Helping a neighbor do chores for free. Paying a minimal toll for the car behind you. Small things that add up to a lifetime of good and happy moments.

Allah says in the Quran in Surah Al ’Ankabut ( the Chapter The Spider):

 

وَالَّذِينَ آمَنُوا وَعَمِلُوا الصَّالِحَاتِ لَنُكَفِّرَنَّ عَنْهُمْ سَيِّئَاتِهِمْ وَلَنَجْزِيَنَّهُمْ أَحْسَنَ الَّذِي كَانُوا يَعْمَلُونَ (29:7) :

  • 29:7 (Y. Ali) Those who believe and work righteous deeds,- from them shall We blot out all evil (that may be) in them, and We shall reward them according to the best of their deeds.
  • Like rain drops on roses and whiskers on kittens,  bright copper kettles and warm woolen mittens, wild gees that fly with the moon on their wings small deeds are a few of my favorite things. InshaAllah they will help us all grow and attain ultimate success in this life and the next.

    What are some small deeds that you like to share with others? Let us know and maybe we can learn a few new habits.

    Commit to a lifetime of learning!

    Teacher~Tamara

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    Shining In the Spotlight presents: Executive Entrepreneur Extraordinaire! Sister Khadiyja Y. Ali, CEO of Atqana and Associates May 4, 2009

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    Hello Everyone!  I hope you enjoyed our interim Secrets to Success series, InshaAllah ( God willing) the series will be continued at a later date. Now with out further ado, I welcome you back to our monthly special series: Shining In the Spotlight!  This month we will be featuring: Khadiyja Y. Ali, CEO of Atqana and Associates !

     Marketing and development are integral elements in the foundation of a successful business endeavor.  This month we will get to know the mastermind executive entrepreneur extraordinaire Sister Khadiyja Y. Ali.  Enjoy the interview while learning more about this dynamic sister and where her inspiration to succeed originates! With everyone starting a business these days, there’s no doubt that she will have a word or two of excellent advice. 

    Welcome Back to Shining In the Spotlight! 

     
    Teacher~Tamara (T~T): Please share some information about yourself, your occupation, family and educational background.

    Khadiyja Y. Ali (KYA): I was raised in Greensboro, North Carolina and suburban Boston, Massachusetts. I had the fortune to live in Europe when I was young (Germany, Italy and France) as well as Alaska, which is my favorite place even to this day. I can honestly say that my living experiences brought rich culture to my life, which somewhat shaped my choice of profession.

    When I lived in Alaska, my father would bring me and my sister dolls from around the world. The eyes of a little girl drank in all of the cultures of countries like Japan and Spain, for example, and created a desire to learn about the people, languages and cultures of the world. My father was an Air Force Major way back in 1969, which was a major accomplishment for a black man at that time. He was also a squadron commander. Commissioned from North Carolina A&T State University (my alma mater as well), he possessed leadership skills as a young man.

    My mother returned to school after the death of my father in 1971 and earned her Bachelors’ (from A&T), Masters and Ph.D (from Boston University). This was no easy feat as a single woman, much less African American then. These traits of leadership and strength as well as intellect, I believe, I inherited from both of my parents.

    It’s noteworthy to mention that as a little girl living in Alaska in the late 1960s, TV shaped my decision to engage in international business in the future. You see, at that time, the people on TV who seemed important were either businessmen or doctors. There were women, but they were nurses or housewives. I told myself, “One day, I will be one of those important people”. So along with the traits from my parents, the thirst for knowledge of the world around me and what I saw on TV, I have been brought to where I now stand.

    These influences, along with the ever changing world of business, also were part of the reason why I chose to pursue my MBA at the University of Maryland University College, with an expected graduation date of December 2009. While pursuing an MBA is not a requirement as an entrepreneur, it has accentuated my strengths and greatly enhanced areas of mine that required growth. Additionally, since the world of business is constantly evolving, I have found it a great asset to obtain current knowledge of theory in areas like management, operations and finance while incorporating current knowledge gained into daily operations and executive decision making.

    T~T:  MashaAllah, you are an entrepreneur extraordinaire can you explain how and when you got bite with the business bug?

    KYA: The bug bit me when I was a kid in Alaska watching TV. Actually, the show that greatest influenced me was Bewitched. I saw plenty of cool businessmen on TV with their suits and briefcases…but the coolest were on Bewitched. Plus, they worked in advertising, the quintessential profession and took long lunches!

     

    T~T : Who in your life inspired and influenced you to be all that you have become today?

     KYA: My parents first, but I had two very influential professors at North Carolina A&T State University. The first is Dr. Japhet Nkonge, Chairman of the Department of Marketing, who told me (at that time), that although I was pursuing a degree in management, I really needed to be in marketing! He was right! The second was Andre Vonsiatsky, an accountant by trade, but professor of a class called “Small Business Management”. To this date, that was my favorite class, besides my marketing classes.

    I was given the name Khadijah [RA] by a brother, Abu Saif (may Allah have mercy upon him), whom I met in the early 90s. Because of her qualities – noble character, one of the four perfect women and of course, an excellent businesswoman, she is the ultimate role model for me as a Muslim woman.

    T~T:  In any basic business frame work you must have a vision and mission, what are your life’s visions and missions?


     KYA:  On a business level, it is to continue to be active in my business units, although in the future I will likely step back from some activities. However, in affairs relating to international business, marketing and culture, I will always be closely involved, as they are my biggest areas of interest and core competencies. The success of women and minorities is also important to me. All of my current and future initiatives are developed for the purpose of fulfilling these objectives.

    Academically, I would like to fund an endowment to my alma mater (North Carolina A&T State University). That school was key in bringing me to where I am…and the praise and glory, of course, is all due to Allah. On a spiritual level, I would like for my sadaqah [charity] to be pleasing to Allah and that He accept my efforts, knowing my heart really is to help others and this is the driving force behind current and future initiatives related to our corporate social responsibility.

    T~T:  How has this vision helped to shape what you do as a CEO of your organization?

    KYA: The name Atqana, derived from the Arabic verb “itqan”, means “He (Allah) perfected”. The noun “atqana” itself means “the ability to arrange or dispose of with art to achieve perfect results”. Since this quality has been placed in me, it’s just my nature to construct the best solutions and strategies for my clients.
    Or to take what tasks I am charged with in this life, be they business or otherwise and fulfill the obligations with which I have been entrusted. I strive to achieve this in consulting or when I have speaking engagements.

     

    T~T:  How is your mission manifested into daily living for you?

    KYA: Simply by living and trying to fulfill the responsibilities with which I have been entrusted. Throughout the course of the day, there’s always some strategic planning going on for each and/or any of my business units. I took a leadership assessment as part of my leadership development and coaching, which revealed that I am as much traditional as I am creative. I was shocked to learn that, but then again, not really. The “traditional” part is the consultant, which also manifests in my love of writing; the “creative” part is expressed in my appreciation of art, beauty, language, culture and literature. I try and give my best every day, be it on a business or personal level. And of course, I’m always striving to better myself. My life and the description of “atqana” are intertwined.

    Stay tuned for pt 2 of this exclusive interview series with Executive Entrepreneur Extraordinaire!

    Khadiyja Y. Ali, CEO of Atqana and Associates!

    Commit to a lifetime of learning!

    Teacher~Tamara

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    Success Strategy #3:Don’t let ‘em steal your joy! April 27, 2009

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    Don't Let 'Em Steal Your Joys! T. Redfern

    Don't Let 'Em Steal Your Joys! T. Redfern

     

    People are often unreasonable, illogical, and self-centered;
    Forgive them anyway.

    If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives;
    Be kind anyway.

    If you are successful, you will win some false friends and some true enemies;
    Succeed anyway.

    If you are honest and frank, people may cheat you;
    Be honest and frank anyway.

    What you spend years building, someone could destroy overnight;
    Build anyway.

    If you find serenity and happiness, they may be jealous;
    Be happy anyway.

    The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow;
    Do good anyway.

    Give the world the best you have, and it may never be enough;
    Give the world the best you’ve got anyway.

    You see, in the final analysis, it is between you and God;
    It was never between you and them anyway.

    Author Kent Keith (source RecoveryEmporium.com)

     

    My grandmother used to always say “Don’t let ‘em steal your joy” and that phrase has kept me positive and moving many days when it seemed like  someone really was trying to steal my joy.  It reminds me of a major life lesson No one can take from you what you are not willing to give away.

    As the wonderful words of wisdom above have detailed no matter what you do there will always be someone somewhere who may be unhappy with it, may not like you for it, may want to tear it down, and may want to cause you harm. Don’t let them steal your joy, do what Allah swt has inspired you to do and do it to best of your capabilities keeping in mind it was never about them anyway.  

    Success Strategy #3- Don’t let them steal your joy! Strive to do good for the sake of Allah and Success will be yours!

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    Teacher~Tamara

     

    Be Committed:Secrets to Success Strategy#2 April 16, 2009

    Roqaya Al Gassra

    Roqaya Al Gassra

    Don’t Quit

    When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
    When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
    When the funds are low and the debts are high,
    And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
    When care is pressing you down a bit,
    Rest, if you must, but don’t you quit.

     

     Life is queer with its twists and turns,
    As every one of us sometimes learns,
    And many a failure turns about,
    When he might have won had he stuck it out;
    Don’t give up though the pace seems slow–
    You may succeed with another blow.
     
     Often the goal is nearer than,
    It seems to a faint and faltering man,
    Often the struggler has given up,
    When he might have captured the victor’s cup,
    And he learned too late when the night slipped down,
    How close he was to the golden crown.

    Success is failure turned inside out–
    The silver tint of the clouds of doubt,
    And you never can tell how close you are,
    It may be near when it seems so far,
    So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit–
    It’s when things seem worst that you must not quit.
    - Author unknown
     
     

    My entire life it seems has been framed by this poem, as I am typing this post I just remembered one of the first places I’d read it was in my childhood living room over two decades ago! I do believe my mother was my first self-help guru! MashaAllah, I know she has always been a source of inspiration.
    So what’s the big deal behind this not quitting thing anyway? Why is it so important? It’s all about commitment. Commitment is what’s going to keep you at it when, not if the going gets tough. Commitment is… knowing that your goal or desired result is worth the effort and being faithful enough to dedicate yourself to seeing it through.

    As you are coming to know, Teacher Tamara loves a good equation! (I really enjoyed algebra in school) so here is our commitment breakdown.

    Knowledge+Effort+Faith=Commitment.

    To really get a good understanding of what we are talking about here we need to clarify our own working definition of each term.
    1. Knowledge of what you want-ex. Your goal
    2. Exerting the required effort to reach completion- ex. Your actions
    3. Being faithful believing that your goal will be achieved- ex. Seeing yourself reaching your goal

    ~Working it out ~Going the extra mile ~Raising the bar ~Pushing the limits ~Reaching for the stars

    BEING COMMITTED to your goal is essential to achieve success in any endeavor. Like the athletes who push father and strive harder to do their personal best in the Olympics, we are our own measuring stick. We can only truly compete and win against ourselves (jihad an nafs–the struggle of the self). True struggle and true success reside in the same place – inside ourselves.

     
    What are your thoughts on commitment and success?

     

    Roqaya Al-Gassra
    Roqaya Al-Gassra

     A  picture is worth a thousand words…

     

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    Secrets to Success Mini-Series April 4, 2009

    Hidden Beauty by Tamara L. Redfern

    Hidden Beauty by Tamara L. Redfern

     

     SubhanAllah,we plan and Allah plans and surely He is the best of planners.  As Allah would manifest for the month of April, the SIS series will be postponed. InshaAllah we will return in March with a great interview with an intriguing sister.

      MashaAllah, so far there has been lots of positive feedback on the SIS series.  In additon there have been questions on the key to achieving personal successes.  InshaAllah for the month of April in the place of a featured sister, I will run a Secrets to Success mini-series. 

     The aim of this mini-series is to cover several of the top principles of success and to open discussion in the area of achieving personal success by offering real-life examples and solutions.  That  is where you the reader comes in,  you can have your very own personal questions addressed simply by clicking here and typing in your question. Of course any personal details will remain confidential.

    InshaAllah throughout the month I will choose the most often repeated themes and issues and offer practical advice for working through the situation.  The authors of the selected questions will be given an opportunity for a free coaching session at SisterShine LifeCoaching.

    We will begin the mini-series with DEFINING PERSONAL SUCCESS.  The best definition for success is one that comes from within you.  Only you can truly judge if your goals and aspirations are enough. Other people looking at your life can only judge by their own paradigm or concept of success.  As we grow and mature experiencing more of life, we will go through several of our own beliefs and definitions of success.

    Often our concept of success has changed yet we have not reconciled that within ourselves.  Take a few minutes and ask yourself  the following questions to see how you definition of personal success may have changed over the years.

    1. Am I living the life I had planned to live 10 yrs ago?
    2. How is my life different than I thought it would be?
    3. Am I satisfied with what I currently am doing with my life?
    4. What do I want to be doing with my life?
    5. What would I be doing right now if I had nothing to limit me?

    Please share your answers in the comments or reply here  and we can get the ball rolling!

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    Shining In the Spotlight Presents: Internationally Acclaimed Author Umm Zakiyyah!! pt2 March 8, 2009

     

     

    by Umm Zakiyyah

    by Umm Zakiyyah

     

     

    Part 2 of a 4 part series with internationally acclaimed author Umm Zakiyyah!!!

    Who or what helped you to realize your passion for writing?

    If I were to pinpoint what helped me realize my passion for writing, aside from my childhood love for the pen, it would have to be my parents and my younger sister Najla.  My parents helped me realize this passion by constantly reminding me and my siblings to use our talents and gifts for the sake of Allah.  They never told us, “I want you to be a doctor” or “This family needs an engineer.”   They, rather, taught us that Allah will put in our hearts whatever we’re supposed to be professionally, but they had only one requirement of us: “Whatever you do, do it as a Muslim.”

     In particular, I remember my father reading from the Qur’an, where Allah describes the believers as those “…who spend out of what We have provided for them,” and I knew that because Allah provided me with the gift of writing, I should write for His cause.  This really instilled in me a determination to write.

    My sister Najla was particularly inspirational to me because she was the one who listened intently to all my stories, even when I had no idea where they were going.  I’d tell her stories before we went to bed, and she’d constantly ask me, “And then what happened?”  When I’d tell her I didn’t know (because I hadn’t figured it out myself), she would grow upset with me, and the next morning, she’d ask me again, until I finished the story.  That really stuck with me because her intense interest made me realize that my stories could, with the help of Allah, intrigue others.

    How is writing different from teaching?

    Writing is different from teaching in that writing is intensely personal.   As I write, I feel that the pen and paper belong completely to me, but I know I will share it with others once I’m done.   Teaching, on the other hand, is entirely communal.  As I teach, I feel that the classroom belongs completely to the students, but I know I must find that personal voice as a teacher to make the lessons accessible to my students and true to myself.  However, in the end, these two professions come from the same desire within me, to, with the help of Allah, make the world a better and more spiritual place, one person at a time.

    MashaAllah we’ve witnessed the worldwide success of your trilogy If I Should Speak, A Voice and Footsteps. Now there’s your latest release Realities of  Submisssion… (may Allah make it successful as well). Is there a typical amount of time that you take to develop a concept or story line?

    In general, my time of development is simply Istikhaarah and du’aa.   Once it’s clear to me that this is a project I should take on, I make du’aa, and the general concept and storyline come to me in floods.  At this stage, timing is not an issue except to find a pen and paper or computer fast enough to keep track of the ideas.    Once I’ve jotted down the concepts and storyline, I have to set time aside to actual write the story chapter by chapter until its end.

    Once a storyline is created how does it develop into the many twists and turns that keep us reading?

    What’s amazing about writing is that even as you write you don’t always know all the twists and turns that will occur until you actually write them.  Naturally, some of the twists are developed in the preliminary stage (when I’m flooded with ideas); however, my experience is that many of the twists are actually surprises for me.  Often, I’m inspired to write them only as I sit typing a particular scene while I’m at the computer, even as I myself never expected the story to move in that direction.   For some of my books, I actually had no idea what was going to happen in each chapter, and Footsteps is one of those.  Thus, I experienced my own level of intrigue as I wrote the story, going through some of the same emotions that I imagined the readers would.  This level of story development I attribute to the mercy of Allah, as it is simply proof of His answering my du’aa for guidance while I write.

    Instead of having your work published elsewhere you created your own publishing company, what inspired you to do this?

    I founded Al-Walaa Publications because I felt that it is most beneficial long-term for Muslims to have a publication company focused on Islamic fiction alone.  At that time, there were no publishers specializing in Muslim novels, and I saw the establishment of a publishing company as the filling of a much needed void in the creative, Islamic voice.

    Come back soon for more of Teacher~Tamara’s exclusive interview with internationally acclaimed author Umm Zakiyyah!

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    Shining In the Spotlight Presents: Internationally Acclaimed Author Umm Zakiyyah!! March 2, 2009

     

    by Umm Zakiyyah

    Asalamualaykum everyone! It’s a new month and that means a new feature SIS!

     

    If you haven’t seen these books in your bookstore then RUN!!  Don’t walk to your computer and go to www.amazon.com and order them now!  Believe me you will not regret it.  MashaAllah Teacher~Tamara is revealing something else about herself here …I LOVE BOOKS!  Especially well written books and EXTRA-ESPECIALLY (I know it’s not a real word!) well written books by Muslimah authors.  So it is no surprise that the second SIS interview is with Internationally Acclaimed Author Umm Zakiyyah of Al-Walaa Publications! Alhumdulillah it brings me great pleasure to present her to you!

      

    Part 1 of a 4 part series with internationally acclaimed author Umm Zakiyyah!!!

         

           Please share some background information about yourself, your occupation and past times. 

    My parents accepted Islam the year that I was born, so I was born into a Muslim family although most of my extended family are Christian, as well as some of my older brothers and sisters.  Most of my childhood was spent in Indianapolis, where I graduated from high school and where I developed a firm concept of my identity as an American Muslim.  From my experiences with teachers and schoolmates, I understood that Allah’s purpose for me was to be significantly different from that of other Americans, whose beliefs, lifestyles, and dress were welcome additions to the “melting pot” of American society.  I don’t think that I have what I would term a “pastime,” but I read books, study Islam and Qur’an, and write novels on a regular basis.

     

                Exactly what it is that you do that manifests your talents and passion?

    I write Islamic-themed novels and teach high school English, both of which I enjoy thoroughly.

     

         What is your life’s mission? What helped you to define that mission?

    My life’s mission is two-faceted: spiritual and worldly.  Spiritually, my life’s mission is to die as a believer in state pleasing to my Creator, as a righteous wife, mother, teacher, and writer.   From a worldly standpoint, my life’s mission is to be amongst the best novelists in history, and to have these novels be an inspiration for readers to accept Islam and to better themselves as Muslims, thus making my novels of the residual knowledge that I leave behind as I am in the grave.

     

         How has this mission manifested into daily living for you as a wife, mother, author, teacher?

    Daily, this mission makes me constantly step back and check myself and my intentions to make certain that my worldly mission never takes precedence over my spiritual mission, but that they both go hand-in-hand working for me in a practical and spiritual sense.   In order to achieve this, I’ve set certain “ground rules” for myself.  For example, my first and most important motto is, Prayer is success, and  I view all my spiritual and worldly success as resting in the realization of this motto.  Thus, I constantly ask Allah to make my prayer “the coolness of my eye.”  Also, I make my daily schedule around the prayer times, and I specifically allocate certain times to certain voluntary prayers that I pray daily “rain or shine.”

    Practically, this mission translates into my gaining ideas to become a better wife, mother, author, and teacher by simply increasing my du’aa while I’m in sajdah and by making more voluntary prayers, of forgiveness and Istikhaarah.  It also means that I write only when my husband is not home or when he is preoccupied in his own activities, and that, as a general rule, schoolwork is done at school, and “home work” is done at home, with exceptions taken only for necessity.  It also means that I make certain that I spend quality time with my daughter and that she is engaged in her own activities whenever I am writing while she is awake.   At school, this means every lesson, no matter how grammatically mundane, is an opportunity to use the English language for the purpose of reminding myself and my students of Allah and our purpose on this earth. 

     

     Life coaching is about applying success strategies to help individuals define and support their ultimate vision. Have you had professional coaching or used any strategies to motivate yourself to keep writing? 

     I haven’t had professional coaching, but I have two strategies that I stick to, [in order] to keep writing.  My first strategy is the motto I mentioned above, “Prayer is success,” so when I wish to write, I simply raise my hands in du’aa or pray in my sajdah asking Allah to guide my words, but only after I’ve made Istikhaarah about embarking on a particular project in the first place.  It’s the one strategy that works without fail.  The next strategy is one I read about once:  “It’s about quantity, not quality.”  In other words, in the first phase of writing, it’s most important to just get your ideas on paper and actually finish the book.  Naturally, you’ll have to re-read, revise, and even rewrite some parts.  But as long as you have something to work with, achieving the quality you want is much more attainable.

     

     Come back soon for part 2/4 of the series with internationally acclaimed author Umm Zakiyyah!

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    Teacher~Tamara

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