Teacher Tamara

Teaching the Art of Success! Coaching Living by Design!

A Productive Muslimah November 3, 2009

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Asalamualaykum everyone!

I’m sorry I’ve been away from the blogosphere!  Back to school preparations required me to be on active home school-teacher- mom duty!

However I have been working on many exciting and new projects for both TeacherTamara and SisterShine LifeCoaching. One project that I’d like to share was an interview with ProductiveMuslim.com

Tamara L. Redfern_Productive-Muslim-Interview

Enjoy the interview and check back often for more news about our upcoming projects and special offers for the month of November!

~ Tamara

 

Ramadan Revolutions September 9, 2009

Hellooo everyone!!!

I know I have been MIA (missing in action) for the past several weeks.  It hasn’t been without good reason though. In the latter part of July a random toothache turned out to need oral surgery.  Then it’s healing was followed by the end of summer and beginning of Ramadan preparations, culminating in the finalization of my summer growth project: the unveiling of a new website for SisterShine LifeCoaching Services (SSLCS) and the jump-start of  R2 Ramadan Revolutions program!  R2 is designed to support sisters in making revolutions (not resolutions) that will last from Ramadan and beyond.

Visit the new site by clicking the link at the bottom of this post and check out our new testimonials page to see what sisters have to say about the program and SSLCS overall.   Be sure sign up for FREE MEMBERSHIP to be among the first to know of upcoming events, interviews, offers and to access the ALL NEW SISTER’S SUN DAY BLOG on the website!!

Our Ramadan Revolutions program was a special unadvertised offer to sisters that were on SSLCS  mailing list. So if you missed out on that offer don’t worry just get on the list and you won’t miss anymore!

There will be an added incentive emailed to those of you who sign up within the next 48 hrs (by 12:01 am EST on Friday, September 11th)!

Don’t forget to spread the word to your friends and family!  All my facebookers and twitterers please add to your pages as well!

Looking forward to seeing you all on the other side!

Supporting Sisters Successes!

Supporting Sisters Successes!

Committed to learning new ways to let my light SHINE!

Teacher Tamara

www.SisterShineLifeCoaching.com

 

 

p.s. just for fun there is a secret password question to gain membership to the site:

Q: What is the S3 Philosophy?

A: Supporting Sisters Successes!

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Breaking the Chains August 23, 2009

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I’m not really sure how many of you all are old enough to remember Roxanne Shante -hip-hop music’s 1st female MC-however this story BEGGED to be told and shared.  This is some real breaking the chains that bind and moving along. Shine on Sis!

Teacher Tamara

Rapper behind ‘Roxanne’s Revenge’ gets Warner Music to pay for Ph.D

BY Walter Dawkins
SPECIAL TO THE NEWS

Updated Sunday, August 23rd 2009, 1:07 PM

Watts/News Roxanne Shante was a young rap star. When the music stopped, she didn’t miss a beat. 

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Roxanne’s revenge was sweet indeed.

Twenty-five years after the first queen of hip-hop was stiffed on her royalty checks, Dr. Roxanne Shante boasts an Ivy League Ph.D. – financed by a forgotten clause in her first record deal.

“This is a story that needs to be told,” Shante said. “I’m an example that you can be a teenage mom, come from the projects, and be raised by a single parent, and you can still come out of it a doctor.”

Her prognosis wasn’t as bright in the years after the ’80s icon scored a smash hit at age 14: “Roxanne’s Revenge,” a razor-tongued response to rap group UTFO’s mega-hit “Roxanne, Roxanne.”

The 1984 single sold 250,000 copies in New York City alone, making Shante (born Lolita Gooden) hip hop’s first female celebrity.

She blazed a trail followed by Lil’ Kim, Salt-N-Pepa and Queen Latifah – although Shante didn’t share their success.

After two albums, Shante said, she was disillusioned by the sleazy music industry and swindled by her record company. The teen mother, living in the Queensbridge Houses, recalled how her life was shattered.

“Everybody was cheating with the contracts, stealing and telling lies,” she said. “And to find out that I was just a commodity was heartbreaking.”

But Shante, then 19, remembered a clause in her Warner Music recording contract: The company would fund her education for life.

She eventually cashed in, earning a Ph.D. in psychology from Cornell to the tune of $217,000 – all covered by the label. But getting Warner Music to cough up the dough was a battle.

“They kept stumbling over their words, and they didn’t have an exact reason why they were telling me no,” Shante said.

She figured Warner considered the clause a throwaway, never believing a teen mom in public housing would attend college. The company declined to comment for this story.

Shante found an arm-twisting ally in Marguerita Grecco, the dean at Marymount Manhattan College. Shante showed her the contract, and the dean let her attend classes for free while pursuing the money.

“I told Dean Grecco that either I’m going to go here or go to the streets, so I need your help,” Shante recalls. “She said, ‘We’re going to make them pay for this.’”

Grecco submitted and resubmitted the bills to the label, which finally agreed to honor the contract when Shante threatened to go public with the story.

Shante earned her doctorate in 2001, and launched an unconventional therapy practice focusing on urban African-Americans – a group traditionally reluctant to seek mental health help.

“People put such a taboo on therapy, they feel it means they’re going crazy,” she explained. “No, it doesn’t. It just means you need someone else to talk to.”

Shante often incorporates hip-hop music into her sessions, encouraging her clients to unleash their inner MC and shout out exactly what’s on their mind.

“They can’t really let loose and enjoy life,” she said. “So I just let them unlock those doors.”

Shante, 38, is also active in the community. She offers $5,000 college scholarships each semester to female rappers through the nonprofit Hip Hop Association.

She also dispenses advice to young women in the music business via a MySpace page.

“I call it a warning service, so their dreams don’t turn into nightmares,” she said.

Hip-hop mogul Russell Simmons said Shante is a shining role model for the rap community. “Dr. Shante’s life is inspiring,” Simmons said. “She was a go-getter who rose from the struggle and went from hustling to teaching. She is a prime example that you can do anything, and everything is possible.”

 

The little engine that could August 1, 2009

 

The Mount Washington Cog Railway

The Mount Washington Cog Railway

 

“I think I can, I think I can, I think I can, I think I can”…

 
As the little engine trudged up the rugged mountain, he was afraid and doubted himself, but instead of focusing on his fear he challenged himself to believe that he could climb up that mountain side. Chanting to himself, “I think I can, I think I can, I think I can”  each time he was afraid, he was slowly-but surely reaching his destination.

 

3 Step Process for Changing a Limiting Belief

IDENTIFY-CHANGE-ACTION

  1. Identify the belief(ex. I am too small to climb that mountain.  I am too old to go back to school.  I don’t have time to memorize Quran.)
  2. Change what you say to your self about the belief. (ex I think I can climb that mountain.  I think I could return to school at my age others have done it.  Maybe I can memorize a little Quran in the mornings after fajr.)
  3. Put your new belief in action. (ex Today I started climbing the mountain.  I registered for a class at the local community college.  While the kids were asleep today I memorized a short surah.)

National Blog Posting Month’s theme for August is “Tomorrow”.  By tomorrow I challenge every reader no matter where they are to identify and post 1 limiting belief they have.  Be brave! or post anonymously :) Come on little engines! I know you can do it!!  What mountains are you facing today?

Commit to a lifetime of learning!

Teacher~Tamara

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Routine things July 25, 2009

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Ok I’m on this new thing this week of doing lists. National Blog Posting Month’s theme for July is Routines.
So I will attempt to continue my blogging the rest of this month using the list format as a routine. Simple enough. InshaAllah!

Ok today the theme will be Gratitude! 

First let’s start with the meaning of gratitude. Gratitude= a  grateful attitude!

Today I am grateful that:

  1. My son’s toe was only slightly cracked not broken!
  2. My family seems to be getting over the bout of summer colds
  3. There was a cool breeze blowing tonight, no fan necessary
  4. We had sufficient food and drink
  5. My son is able to reflect on lessons learned
  6. The company of good friends near and far
  7. Good fathers and the memories they create
  8. Burnt cookies that still are edible
  9. Good neighbors that will let you borrow a needle and thread or a spot on their floor to crash
  10. An unstuffed nose ( even if it’s only one side) appreciate what you have!

ok that’s my top ten today.

Enjoy people and have a great day or night wherever you  are!

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Teacher~Tamara

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Olive branches July 14, 2009

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Olive Branch  by Tamara L. RedfernIn ancient times olive branches were used to show that one of  two warring armies were willing to surrender and settle peacefully.  From this practice we have derived the saying  ”to extend an olive branch” to settle disagreements and fights. It takes a lot of courage to be the one who steps forward and chooses peace and it’s not a sign of weakness but of a strong and commendable character trait. 

Today choose to take a step toward conflict resolution in your life. Call up that friend or family member and humbly extend the olive branch. Apologize for your part in the disagreement and even take more than your share of the blame.  One simple action may repair a decade old rift. 

With the best of intentions your courageous and unselfish action may reap innumerable benefits for future generations.   And Allah is the best witness to what we do for His sake.

Commit to a lifetime of learning!

Teacher~Tamara

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Got a Growth-Project? July 9, 2009

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got growth?

got growth?

 My latest new word is “growth-project”.  Simply put a growth-project is anything that is contemplated, devised or planned that stimulates or motivates one to develop from one stage to the next.  The words challenge and opportunity are synonyms for a growth-project. 

My latest growth project is daily blogging with NaBloPoMo group. I am using this as in exercise to develop my creativity and discipline in writing.  I wish to push my writing to the next level.

3 questions:

1. What’s your latest growth project?

2. What will it help you to develop?

3. In what ways do you hope to grow from this?

Post and let’s discuss ways to keep on going and growing!

Commit to a lifetime of learning!

Teacher~Tamara

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Fly! July 8, 2009

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Fly!

Fly!

With broken wings she tried to fly

Her aim was straight, the goal so high.

She’d seen the others glide and soar,

far, out and over the ocean’s shore.

She too wanted to spread her wings

and do all sorts of magnificent things.

But in her mind she was stuck in the past

and could not move beyond the looking glass.

Although her wings were healed and well,

           she still relives that day she fell.

She only rememebers the pain of flying

when her wings and her spirit were broken from trying.

If only she would break out and try

she’d see that her only limit was the sky.

~Tamara L. Redfern 7/8/09

Commit to a lifetime of learning!

Teacher~Tamara

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She Got Game! February 14, 2009

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Great summer day. Neighborhood barbecue/birthday party.

Live drummers playing. Basketball courts.

she-got-game

Somehow the girl in us had had enough that day. She wanted out and badly. So in the wide leg dress pants, white long sleeve tee, floral printed headscarf and pale green abayah the game began. First we just aimlessly threw the ball at the net, nervously laughing at our silly selves. Then the “I used to play in college” (Umm Daniel) and the “I come from a family of female athletes” (Teacher~Tamara) came out.

Her name was Umm Daniel and we both were in the park with our sons letting them get out some energy.

We were just in town visiting friends and didn’t know anyone there but it was too nice of a day not to play outside.

The kids ran races, played on the swings, slid down the sliding board, monkey bars etc…

While we did the Mom thing. Holding melting icecreams. Politely chatting about nothing. Fanning flies and mosquitoes. The Mom thing.

Sneakers in the car? Basketball in the trunk. 

Ice creams in the trash. Game on. 

Drums beating. Park crowded. Hot summer day.

Muslimah Moms ballin’?  Priceless.

We left town that day -just visiting, but Umm Daniel if you are out there thanks sis. 

You Got Game!

Shining Out!

Commit yourself to a lifetime of learning!

Teacher~Tamara

 

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